There are numerous sidetracks which lead to a distorted ego-centered version of spirituality; we can deceive ourselves into thinking we are developing spiritually when instead we are strengthening our egocentricity through spiritual techniques.
There is something about women, they like to talk, and they think that they get to know what a man is thinking by talking, like they get to know a man that way and that's a laugh, ain't it . . . when actually a man don't even know hisself . . .
Personally, I find what one might term the "post-act" reformers the hardest to bear, as sated, they condemn the means by which they achieved satiation — prostitution and its instrument, yourself, abjuring you to give it up before it's too late, a nice girl like you.