I heard a Tibetan lama address this same issue in a far different language. "We die not because we are ill but because we are complete.… Illness is the occasion of our dying, but not the cause.

About Rachel Naomi Remen

Rachel Naomi Remen (February 8, 1938 – August 8, 2026) was an American pediatrician who gained fame as an author, medical educator, and pioneer in integrative medicine. She was a professor at the Osher Center of Integrative Medicine at the University of California, San Francisco. Together with Michael Lerner, she...

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We have become terribly vulnerable, not because we suffer but because we have separated ourselves from each other. A patient once told me that he had tried to ignore his own suffering and the suffering of other people because he had wanted to be happy. Yet becoming numb to suffering will not make us happy. The part in us that feels suffering is the same as the part that feels joy.

—Rachel Naomi Remen

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I heard a Tibetan lama address this same issue in a far different language. "We die not because we are ill but because we are complete. . . . Illness is the occasion of our dying, but not the cause.