I didn't want it like that. Not against the bricks or hunkering in somebody's car. I wanted it to come undone like gold thread, like a tent full of birds. —Sandra Cisneros More about this quote Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
If our sex life were determined by our first youthful experiments, most of the world would be doomed to celibacy. In no area of human experience are human beings more convinced that something better can be had if only they persevere. —P. D. James More about this quote Tags: sex celibacy perseverence Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
Pornography is rather like trying to find out about a Beethoven symphony by having someone tell you about it and perhaps hum a few bars. —Robertson Davies More about this quote Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
Everyone lies about sex, more or less, to themselves if not to others, to others if not to themselves, exaggerating its importance or minimizing its pull. —Daphne Merkin More about this quote Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
We do not go to bed in single pairs; even if we choose not to refer to them, we still drag there with us the cultural impediments of our social class, our parents' lives, our bank balances, our sexual and emotional expectations, our whole biographies — all the bits and pieces of our unique existences. —Angela Carter More about this quote Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
Tamed as it may be, sexuality remains one of the demonic forces in human consciousness — pushing us at intervals close to taboo and dangerous desires, which range from the impulse to commit sudden arbitrary violence upon another person to the voluptuous yearning for the extinction of one's consciousness, for death itself. Even on the level of simple physical sensation and mood, making love surely resembles having an epileptic fit at least as much as, if not more than, it does eating a meal or conversing with someone. —Susan Sontag More about this quote Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
He opens himself to all influences — everything nourishes him. Everything is gravy to him, including what he does not understand — particularly what he does not understand. —Henry Miller More about this quote Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
Act boldly and unseen forces will come to your aid. —Dorothea Brande More about this quote Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
There is a well-worn adage that those who set out upon a great enterprise would do well to count the cost. I am not sure that this is always true. I think that some of the very greatest enterprises in this world have been carried out successfully simply because the people who undertook them did not count the cost; and I am much of the opinion that . . . the most instructive consideration for us is the cost of doing nothing. —Thomas Henry Huxley More about this quote Tags: nothing cost consideration Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
What is more mortifying than to feel you've missed the plum for want of courage to shake the tree? —Logan Pearsall Smith More about this quote Tags: fear courage boldness Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
I used to believe . . . that growing and growing up are analogous, that both are inevitable and uncontrollable processes. Now it seems to me that growing up is governed by the will, that one can choose to become an adult, but only at given moments. These moments come along fairly infrequently — during crises in relationships, for example, or when one has been given the chance to start afresh somewhere — and one can ignore them or seize them. —Nick Hornby More about this quote Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
The healthy being craves an occasional wildness, a jolt from normality, a sharpening of the edge of appetite, . . . a brief excursion from his way of life. —Robert MacIver More about this quote Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
Just as a cautious businessman avoids investing all his capital in one concern, so wisdom would probably admonish us also not to anticipate all our happiness from one quarter alone. —Sigmund Freud More about this quote Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
Someone once asked me why women don't gamble as much as men do, and I gave the common-sensical reply that we don't have as much money. That was a true but incomplete answer. In fact, women's total instinct for gambling is satisfied by marriage. —Gloria Steinem More about this quote Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
Take calculated risks. That is quite different from being rash. —George Patton More about this quote Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email