Siddharth Pico Raghavan Iyer (born 11 February 1957), known as Pico Iyer, is a British-born essayist and novelist known chiefly for his [writing on explorations both inner and outer ]. He is the author of numerous books on crossing cultures including Video Night in Kathmandu, The Lady and the Monk...
Humor is a rubber sword - it allows you to make a point without drawing blood.
One thing you will probably remember well is any time you forgive and forget.
—Emily Giffin in Something Borrowed
Nothing fixes a thing so intensely in the memory as the wish to forget it.