Blame someone else and get on with your life.
If at first you don't succeed, blame your parents.
I envy people who drink. At least they have something to blame everything on.
They blame the low-income women for ruining the country because they're staying home with their children and not going out to work. They blame the middle-income women for ruining the country because they go out to work and do not stay home to take care of their children.
Neither blame or praise yourself.
It doesn't matter what happens as long as the right person gets the blame.