The unhappy person resents it when you try to cheer him up, because that means he has to stop dwelling on himself and start paying attention to the universe. Unhappiness is the ultimate form of self-indulgence. When you’re unhappy, you get to pay a lot of attention to yourself. You get to take yourself oh so very seriously. —Tom Robbins in Jitterbug Perfume More about this quote Tags: happiness universe self-centeredness attitude unhappiness Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
Despair is as addictive as heroin and more popular than sex, for the single reason that when one is unhappy one gets to pay a lot of attention to oneself. Misery becomes a kind of emotional masturbation. —Tom Robbins More about this quote Tags: despair sadness sex misery unhappiness masturbation Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
Happiness is always a byproduct. It is probably a matter of temperament, and for anything I know it may be glandular. But it is not something that can be demanded from life, and if you are not happy, you had better stop worrying about it and see what treasures you can pluck from your own brand of unhappiness. —Robertson Davies More about this quote Tags: life happiness worry unhappiness temperament Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
The core of all humor, the reason for it all, is unhappiness. —Bob Mankoff More about this quote Tags: humor unhappiness dissatisfaction Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
Slaves sing most when they are most unhappy. The songs of the slave represent the sorrows of his heart, and he is relieved by them, only as an aching heart is relieved by its tears. —Frederick Douglass More about this quote Tags: history heart sorrow tears unhappiness slavery songs relief Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
The belief that unhappiness is selfless and happiness is selfish is misguided. It's more selfless to act happy. It takes energy, generosity, and discipline to be unfailingly lighthearted, yet everyone takes the happy person for granted. No one is careful of his feelings or tries to keep his spirits high. He seems self-sufficient; he becomes a cushion for others. And because happiness seems unforced, that person usually gets no credit. —Gretchen Rubin in The Happiness Project More about this quote Tags: happiness belief effort generosity feelings discipline energy unhappiness selfishness care selflessness lightheartedness Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email
I find to my astonishment that an unhappy marriage goes on being unhappy when it is over. —Rebecca West More about this quote Tags: relationships happiness marriage unhappiness Permalink for this quote facebook twitter tumblr email