The mind thinks thoughts that we don’t plan. It’s not as if we say, “At 9:10 I’m going to be filled with self-hatred.”
—Sharon Salzberg
The greatest mistake is trying to be more agreeable than you can be.
—Walter Bagehot
Never reach out your hand unless you're willing to extend an arm.
—Pope Paul VI
I have forced myself to contradict myself in order to avoid conforming to my own taste.
—Marcel Duchamp
When the right one comes along, you figure it out. You move mountains, you change your life and you do whatever it takes to keep them with you.
—Jay Crownover in Jet
A man can be destroyed but not defeated.
—Ernest Hemingway
Perhaps the most valuable result of all education is the ability to make yourself do the thing you have to do, when it ought to be done, whether you like it or not.
—Thomas Henry Huxley
A will finds a way.
—Orison Swett Marden
There is a difference between saying goodbye and letting go. Goodbye is not permanent. You can meet years later and share what happened in your life. You can smile and laugh about all the nonsense that you both went through. However, letting go is being okay with never seeing this person ever again… being okay with never knowing how their life turned out… being okay with fifty or more years of silence… being okay with running into that person at a grocery store and having them not acknowledge your presence. This is the part of life that doesn't sit well with me and never will. It tears my heart in pieces, robs me of gratitude, drains me of anything positive and eats at the faith that holds on.
—Shannon L. Alder
Somewhere inside of me I am crying, too, because I'm feeling things at last. I'm feeling not just the physical pain, but all that I have lost, and it is profound and catastrophic and will leave a crater in me that nothing will ever fill.
—Gayle Forman in If I Stay
Just remember who you are. The world will try to change you into someone else. Don't let them. That's the best advice anyone can give you.
—Cinda Williams Chima in The Warrior Heir
My wish is to ride the tempest, tame the waves, kill the sharks.… I will not resign myself to the usual lot of women who bow their heads and become concubines.
—Trieu Thi Trinh
Will is the means by which we overcome the problems that life or genes have handed us. Without it, there is no true character.
—Jacob Needleman
Don't let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.
—John Wooden
Do not run toward pain, but do not run from it, either. Pain is your guide. Pain is what guides a person in every serious undertaking. Unless an aching longing and passion arises in someone to get or achieve something, he will never get or achieve it.
—Andrew Harvey